The relationship between human and canine is complicated but very real. There are many ways to improve as well as damage or erode the human-canine bond. It's hard to scientifically determine issues related to even human relationships much less those between two different species. We can observe, however, that some people have a closer bond with their dog than others. This article will explore possible signs of a strong human-canine bond and ways to increasing the bond with your dog.
Behavior and the Human-Canine Bond
While not the only measure of attachment, a dog's behavior is one of the key barometers of the level of bonding between human and canine. A dog who feels appropriately bonded to his human often follows that human being's directions more than a dog that could care less about the person he lives with. Some dogs, however, are so attached to the master that they become anxious and overly protective. This type of insecure attachment can lead to aggressiveness and behavior that looks like disobedience.
There are other behaviors you will see in a dog who is bonded to his person. After a separation, the dog will show many signs of excitement when his master returns. You'll see the helicopter tail, the dog running towards the person, and maybe even a good "smile" on the dog's face. Some dogs will bring toys to the master to show love and interest.
Creating Familiarity
A dog feels bonded to a person he knows well. It's important to spend time with your dog on a regular basis. Dogs are especially bonded to people they knew when they were young, but that doesn't mean a dog won't become very bonded to someone he spends a lot of time with starting at an older age.
Interact During Feeding
Automatic feeders are convenient but nothing replaces a face to snout interaction around feeding. Invite your dog into the feeding area before you serve the food so that he sees what you are doing. Use it as a positive training moment by using the "sit" or "wait" command while you are getting the food ready. Praise him when he goes to the food once you say it's time.
Create Positive Associations
A dog will bond to you more if he associates you with things he loves. For many dogs, that's a combination of food, play, exercise, and affection. Try to play with your dog a little bit every day. Even 10 minutes of focused play with him will create a mutual bond. Set your dog up for success and offer praise whenever possible.
Use Affection
Dogs respond to touch. Offer a pat when you are walking by, and take a minute to give a nice belly rub. Let your dog kiss and sniff you. Those are ways of showing love and creating a physical imprint of you. You can choose where you feel comfortable being sniffed and kissed.
Talk To Your Dog
It might sound silly, and it might feel silly. But talking to your dog helps activate another sense in your canine friend. It also helps you feel bonded to him. Create excitement using a happy voice even when you are doing something simple like changing his water. Tell him your secrets and worries. It will help you to just voice things from your heart and your dog will intuitively know that you are opening up to him.